S was new to the world of blogging. Gradually she made some friends in Bloggerville, among them one A got very close to her. They used to chat day and night, all the girly talk and she confided a lot in her new friend. Day and night S would be awake cause she felt A really needed her after the recent emotional trauma they had undergone. One day a dispute occurred between them cause she expected her friend to comment on her posts ( which A usually did but had been too busy of late). There ensued an exchange of words and they called it quits. Next day she finds a hate post on A's blog. She was rattled and shocked. She bore it somehow and did not react, thanks to her real friends, whom she had been too busy to talk to of late cause of that new person in her life.In a few days, S started getting requests from A to patch up and put the fight behind them. Emotionally vulnerable as she was, she was moved and made up after demanding answers for that person's behavior. However, that initial warmth was gone now. Again after a few weeks, another fight ensued over the same issue and this time it was worse. A actually mentioned S's name on their blog, just cause she visited to check for more hate posts about herself. There followed one hate post after the other, S was quiet. But she continued to visit. Everybody advised her not to visit there and hurt herself but she would not listen. Her friend L who could not bear to see her unhappy decided to take that person off her own blogroll and then A started hounding her and there ensued a bigger fight on their respective blogs. S was grateful to L and would always be for standing up in times when many just chose to ignore in spite of knowing the truth. Some people even turned traitor and started passing on information to A.
L finally put up a post with A's name on her blog and A ran to S pleading to ask L to take off that post or at least their name from it. She did it in spite of all that happened and L obliged just cause she loves S and warning A not to repeat what they were doing, like commenting on their comments on other people's blogs, who were even worse given the fact that they did not stop such comments nor reacted to them and just pretended as if nothing had happened. For a while, things were quiet and S and A even started commenting on each other's blogs again out of mutual understanding after the peace talk. Then one day, S visited A's blog and did not want to comment on their latest post and she found her ip address put up on that blog the next day. From that day she vowed never to visit A's blog again. But then in a few days, A came and commented on S's blog and she published the comment and replied politely and even went and commented on A's current post for courtesy sake.
A few days later, S again saw A's comments about her comment on another blog and then decided to ignore this person totally, no matter what. But then, A came to her blog yet again and left a comment and this time S was firm about not allowing it cause she did not want to have anything to do with A hereon. She knew they would retaliate with a post about it and she was right, A did exactly just that. What A did not understand is that the comment was not approved not because it was not in agreement with the post, but because they or their comments were unwanted in S's blog. Anyways, it was not the first time that A had manipulated the truth for their own convenience and S ignored it but L did not let it go and wrote a post about all these issues, and A at once responded to it and threatened to close down L's and S's blogs. Why should L or S close their blogs?
They do not thrive in Bloggerville on the basis of making friendship by mail or chat, nor by going and asking people to blogroll or visit their blogs and also not by threatening those who do not comment on their blog by putting up the ip addresses. L and S thrive on the basis of the art of good writing, something that A would never understand.Neither S's nor her friend L's lives would be affected in any way, they have a life out of Bloggerville and much more to do than only ranting and waging wars with every single person who disagrees with them, be it in posts or comments or on chat, and they do not bring their day-to-day personal problems and dump them on their blogs. Also is a question about who this person A really is. No one knows where they really are and how they look like or for that matter, even their real name. Just because they write using a girl's name does not mean they have to be one. In fact, after seeing some proofs about A's identity, S was shocked cause this person seems to actually be someone else. It is not S's problem if they are a guy or girl or maybe more than one person, but the question is, is it right to fool so many people by dishing out so much lies? Cause on Judgement Day, God will only ask for nothing but the truth...
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53 Footnotes:
You made me smile, girl :)
And i am proud of you as you are truly the best and got great courage to write this all down. My brave heart! :)
And God beware these girls close their blogs, i am sure it will never happen!!
Love you :)
Hugssssssss
Thanks sweetheart!
Of course it won't happen,cause God knows what the truth is.
Love you too!Hugsss
That's a disturbing and distressing story, Sameera - but blogosphere is a strange place, - just like real life and when blog wars break out it can get really ugly.
Hugs
Sameera,
As u said about net, its always better to be under caution coz u never know.
Good u overcame and ther is a world more than the net .. I agree.
This is really a strange incident...we will all hope these kinds of incidents not to be repeated & the privacy of the online world prevails and yes everyone cannot be fooled all the time...I agree with your thoughts!
Sameera,
This might be a story or true. But I have seen this kind of incidents more in my regional language. finally the girl opted out for blogging and other is end is a group. Anyway again your narration is good and your's best is flow..
Yes Nicky dear,it sure gets very ugly.But then,reality bites!
Hugs back to you :)
The problem Kalyan is that such incidents are repeated over and over again.Of course,people who fool others tend to make mistakes and not everyone can be blindly fooled all the time and lap up whatever is on offer.
Yes Priya,one has to be really cautious and tread very carefully in cyberspace.
Of course blogging is only a way of life,not life itself!
Thank you Ila(a).Opting out of blogging or not,one must know there is a limit to tolerance of manipulated truths.
U made my day girl! :D
May that person who betrayed U ROT IN HELL and be fed to the Rabid dogs :D
I hate people who make up stuff just because they hate that person!
Such people must be taught a lesson. What kind of loser wud write hate posts about someone just because they did not comment upon his/her blog! :D
I pray to god that such people die of AIDS! :D
-I
I am almost shocked to know this...all this is happening here as well...
:(...
depresses me!!!
Welcome here Neha!
I am sorry the first post you read here is shocking,but then that's the truth.Take care.
Glad I made your day with this story Rajeev :)
Lol,you sure know to curse!
This is strange but true!<-- just like the title of my blog, tehehehe..
But, gosh,whether to comment or not it's really up to the individual...obviously we can't force others to comment.
A good person won't make up story especially the not so good one just because you don't like others.
It's sad to hear even in blogosphere such hatred/vengeance does exist.
Take care my dear.All the best to you and have a gr8 day!
Hugs*
Ha ha it certainly is dear!
Surely good people do not do that,a pity such people very much exist.Good that you did not come across them and hope you never do.
Thanks sweetie.You too take care.Hugs!
Why is everyone writing about politics on Blogosphere these days? I wrote one too.
Anyway, your story is a bit confusing. Whose friend and what friend..I really could not follow. Maybe you could put A,B,C,D there?
that makes it three posts in one day addressing the same thing.
i dunno what to say except atleast she found out which friend was for keeps and which one turned out to be masquerading as one....sure she found out the hard way but she did.
the truth is never really hidden to those who choose to believe it!
Loadsa love n hugs
to both u and Lena :)
Sneha,it's because there is a limit to tolerance of false accusations and ugly deeds.You wrote that post out of observation,not out of personal experience like me,there is a great difference.
I have put character initials now(though by principle I do not edit posts after publishing) and I hope it now makes more sense to you.
Vands sweetie,guess it was destined to be a hatrick!Lol
Yup,it is never too late to learn the truth and for those who believe in it,it is not difficult either.
Lots of love and hugs right back to you dear :)
Im not used to the truth anymore...only cos it's very hurtful. When I see God I hv alot of questions to ask Him too.
Great post here!
Keshi.
im kind of flummoxed because i think i missed some sort of a memo... ive just been through three blogs (including yours, sameera) and everyone has written about the same thing... [:O]
im very proud of you as usual for writing this... and im glad that the truth came out...
but im seriously still bewildered as to why people would do something like this? how petty can you get? [:O]
hugs to you...
uff.. after reading this blog, i feel like i have just finished a tough questio from one of teh IT firms recrutment puzzle test :) hope everything goes back to normal soon...
hmmmm... sad indeed..
L A S (ses) having a e-cat fight.....
what a conundrum
sameera, dear i know it takes guts to do this and i really admire that..
am happy for you and yes we have lives other than this too!
and i really pity the person who wud have to attract attention this way! god! and pity for me is such a cheap commodity..
u rock on girl!!
loved rajeev's comment btw! :D and my thots aint that far away in that matter!!
love,
akki
A conundrum it is Ceedy,but then it's the stark face of reality which this post reflects.
Well Hope,sad or not,it is the truth.
Hope you had a great B'day girl!
Well Mann,I have been quiet for too long,almost three months in fact.Had to write it even though it ain't one of my favorite posts and given the fact that my blog is not a place which generates negative vibes.
If you truly are proud of me,then thank you girl.
Well I too was bewildered initially,but now I know it's all part of the game.
Hugs back at you..
Anoop,sorry to have given so much work to your brain but then I had to let people know the truth.
As for things getting back to normal,it take two to tango!
The truth is always bitter Keshi but then there is a limit to suppress it with manipulated stories.God guides,it's up to us to find out the answers.
Thanks!
Thanks Akila dear,I know you are a person who can make out the truth even if it is usually marred.
As for pity,it's something normal to feel for a person in distress.But the means of gaining pity by lies and manipulated stories,that's what is so cheap.
Ha ha,Rajeev said that cause he had experienced quite a lot too!
Love ya.Hugs
I think blogs are all about views, and if I do not like some views, it does not mean they are wrong.
I think S, and L should forget about what happened, because there are too many things in this blog world, which can be so good. Why worry about a stray case?
S should keep writing! :) She has a great style and she needs to fill up whatever vacant space is there with more awards!! :)
Oh dear, I am glad you got over this and trully brave of you to write it down.
As the saying goes, there's always a serpent in every garden and I guess bloggerville is not any different.
It's really sad why people have to resort to things like these to ruin and hurt others. God bless you dear and your wonderful soul=)
this is the very first time that i am reading anykind of hate post in this beautiful haven. i knw sami u nvr wnted to post any hate post ever...but u r compelled to do so... it's not at all a hate post but it's a post revealing the truth...it's a hate post for those who manupulates truth n who can't accept and tolerate the truth. it needs courage to accpt n see through d truth and ppl like As surely don't have this..nor courage neither ability.
by keeping quite for around 3 mnths u hv proved that u nvr have any intentions to insult or fight with anyone. but sometimes we need to take a stand for our self-respct, dignity and truth.
hope people like A find out something meaningful in life to do. and let peace, happiness, friendship and love prevail everywhere. but again it's just a hope... god knows ever this hope of ours will fullfil or not.
love u dear...huggsss .... muaaaaaaaaaaah
:) :) :)
Thanks Puresunshine for that lovely ray of encouragement! :)
Thanks so much Lisa sweetie.Yes,it is a pity that such miscreants are present everywhere.It is up to one to be cautious here.
Take care dear.God Bless You always.
Yes Rambler,blogs are all about expressing views,but NOT at the cost of degrading another person,that too by totally changing the real thing and presenting a picture that puts oneself as the victim.S and L are not worried,just that there is a limit to tolerate.Of course,just because there is one bad stray case,does not mean the whole place is bad.
Yes Preeti dear,I was compelled to post this cause there is a limit to take things lying down and pretend as if nothing has happened.Of course it is not a hate post,it is a true story and if people think it is a hate post,so be it.I have not abused anyone with names nor used slang of any sort and only given an outline here.
Also,this post was not for myself but for others so that they should know what goes on in Bloggerville and be careful themselves and not have to learn things the hard way like me.
We can always hope,cause that is what keeps life going.
Thanks for the support darling angel.Love you loads.Hugsssss
Dropping by to say hello and hope you have a good w/end.
I agree with you my dear that everything has limits...and we shouldn't underestimate others.
Take care my dear.Big hug to you.
Muahhss.
Thank you dear,really sweet of you.
TC,God Bless.Hugs!
crazy things happen here, sameera. u will gradually learn to address them. be strong.
ammu.
Main bahut der se aaya !!! And i think i can expand S L & A....I know something was up for so many days.... but i wont comment more here... Chweetu di !!!
Ciao soon !!!
Zahid Bhai,tum der se aaye par aaye to sahi :)
Hmmm it's ok,you have the right to remain silent!Lol
TC dear.Cheers!
Thanks Ammu,I guess I am learning to.
Though I am late but still, I wanna say that glad S didn't feel low 'coz of this.
And hey! Another blogger Sachi holds an apology for seeing the manipulated version of truth and not realizing the facts.
Thanks dear!As long as people see the truth,makes this post worthwhile.
hmmm here i am reading this post....i can relate to where your coming from....
but babes since neither S nor A have actually caused any harm to me.....i think i'll visit both their blogs ;)
Welcome here girl!
It's up to you dear,just be careful :)
:) hmmm, see ya around then
Man! I know exactly what you are referring to Sameera. This is sad. Really is. Not a shock actually, but sad. What is noticeable here is that u took this up personally and wrote this post. Kudos gurl!
Hugs!!!
Thanks sweetie!I underwent it and there is a limit to which one can take,hai na?
*Hugs*
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